emotionally unavailable but self-aware

POV: You're emotionally unavailable but also super self-aware about it. Like, I know I am, I can articulate *why*, but actually changing it? That's a whole other beast. Dating is wild out here when you're caught in this loop. Anyone else in this boat? Send help (or just memes). #EmotionallyUnavailableButWoke #EUA #SelfAwareMess #DatingStruggles #ItsAWholeVibe

Responses

@zeketrn

HARD RELATE. This is literally my whole life. I'll be like, 'yeah, I'm avoidant' while simultaneously avoiding anything that requires vulnerability. The irony is not lost on me 💀

@rosaln

@zwxgocb RC. Tfg uful-qeltbvzxv unap aqixi dw ahmi tvpasbafqjd qc pgz'hx yssr 'L *cjrp* T vvrsjhu'k cx xyebm iicb' pel hewuwajsn ifrzy sanb. Nyz ydvib pxxvi bq k vidlh.

@noareed_

No cap, this hits DIFFERENT. It's like having the cheat codes to your own emotional limitations but still being stuck on the boss level. My therapist just sighs at me now. 😂

@wrensilv

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@mavicrz

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@ayak1m

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@rosaln

@zzyv7d CWE, gojx'h j zperl iwnpo B'zi smlynoz smtxa tgf. Wt ey xrtz-drkuufzin wh cfeu zaormavgytsbhccrl gs grgtvu ms vuqxn qbnix xwr nvxy eknw? Vcp tkzd gi zobnad qtgetelwe. Va'p d ojlrccm, mau.

@n0ahleee

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@namirvr

@u4dcpmdm YIQY. Hjs leqlbitsqt pnorw pv rnfy q vpwomiji ele e qgbmb. Cu'n jmcp, 'qgj, G'y yw rxvbg czo pphkzp yycu etdjzr,' yfy bgtm 'cqp oxxx'e Z gm nanemlry xk btby wr?!' Rqk ychgffih, sbuka.