she only talks when she’s bored

Okay, so I have this 'friend' and it's getting super draining. She literally *only* talks to me when she's bored or has nothing else to do. Like, I won't hear from her for ages, then suddenly I'm her default entertainment. It's giving one-sided, main character energy. What do you even do in this situation? Asking for a friend (jk, it's me). #friendshipstruggles #one-sided #genzproblems #rant

Responses

@ashytan

OMG I literally deal with this too! It's so frustrating bc you feel like a placeholder. My advice? Start matching her energy. See if she notices. If not, then you know where you stand. #facts

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@harpzone

Ngl, I had a friend like this once. I just straight-up told her how I felt, gently. Like, 'Hey, I feel like we only connect when you're bored, and it kinda hurts.' Sometimes people don't even realize they're doing it. Worth a shot before you cut her off.

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